Not pursuing their dream

Why People not pursue their Dreams?






1. They fear being judged by those they care about for failing.


Fear of failure, in itself, is debilitating. But that fear is almost always rooted in fear of rejection or judgment from those around them. 

What you need to separate is everyone else's fears (within themselves) and your own feelings. The two are not the same.



2. They give others the power to influence their decisions.


Instead of asking, "What is it that I truly want?" most people give that power to others.

Their parents. Their friends. Their boss. 

But fast-forward 10, 20, 30 years. Will you really care what those people thought?

You have to make decisions for yourself.



3. They fail once--and never try again.


If you stop walking, how do you expect to get to where you want to go?

Once isn't a good judge of your potential. Twice isn't either. 100 times is still not enough.

It's a journey. You can never "try" too many times.


4. They only see the failure, not the lesson. 


People who give up on their dreams tend to experience failure once, and then attach themselves to that title. "I am a failure," they repeat over and over again.

But what does that word really mean? Failure?

Those who succeed are the ones who see those "failures" as lessons--forever and always.



5. They don't learn how to discipline themselves.


Discipline is the single most valuable skill for turning your dream into a reality. 

Unfortunately, most people don't practice this skill. They don't like waiting for things, don't like practicing patience, don't see the value in withholding short-term rewards for longer-term gains.

But without discipline, you will never succeed.

                                                                         


6. They care more about the end result, not the process.

If you only focus on the end, you'll never get there.

But if you focus on the process, you'll find yourself waking up morning after morning realizing, "Wow, I've come such a long way." 


7. They don't believe in themselves. 


Instead, they look to others to believe in them. 

They want everyone else around them to do the heavy lifting, to cheer them on, to give them the money they need, to give them some sense of "guarantee."

Dreams don't work that way.

You have to believe in yourself first--so that others can follow.




Yash Raj Singh Bhati

B. Tech. Civil 

6th Semester





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